Feeling versus Thinking: Spent the weekend at a paranormal convention

I spent the weekend at a paranormal convention in Gettysburg, PA. Now, to most Skeptics, they may not have been able to hold out three days but, actually, it’s a truly enlightening experience. I’ve been to a few paranormal events like this before. I’m certain I was the only card-carrying Skeptic at this one. I’ll be writing and talking about it in various outlets soon but I wanted to give you the quick takeaways.

These conferences are fun and rewarding for the people who attend. They feel like they are among their “kind”. In their spare time, they do paranormal investigations so their regular jobs do not compare. This is no different than a skeptical or any other hobby con. But the big difference between a skeptic event like Skepticamp or a conference is the worldview of the attendees. At a Skeptics convention, the scholarship is high, mistakes are pointed out, serious critiques are brought up in the questioning and it’s all about thinking, not feelings. For this event it was very much the opposite. It was all about suspending scientific thought, very much more spiritual (in the religious sense) than I anticipated. It did not matter what religion you subscribed to (it all sort of mashed together) but your belief will protect and heal you. References and evidence were weak, emotion was strong. Personal stories are welcomed – when were you most scared and most vulnerable? People are very profoundly altered by experiences they had and are struggling to understand them. Without critical thinking tools or framework, it appears explainable in the spiritual sense. Often, what is lacking from Skeptics is empathy towards others’ struggles to understand their frightening experiences. In fact, empathy is downright rare.

The emphasis from the experts there was on the individual – do what is right for you, do it your way. Other than the stereotypical paranormal investigator uniform of black tee with your group’s acronym on it, I saw several groups doing their own thing their own way, writing their own books, and thinking they would be the one to get it right and discover THE PROOF.

The people at a paranormal conference see the world very differently than those of us who subscribe to a rational-based framework for the world. I’m not going to tell them they are wrong, I’m going to try and understand how they seen things. More to come on this.

But right now, I’m pretty exhausted by the whole thing.

Also, on Friday, I debuted a new piece on the Huffington Post.

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0 thoughts on “Feeling versus Thinking: Spent the weekend at a paranormal convention

  1. I spend most of my online time at believer sites. That’s where the juice is. That risks humanising the “enemy” but, hey, they are humans!

    > Empathy to others struggles to understand their frightening experiences is often what is lacking from Skeptics. In fact, it’s downright rare.

    There’s some truth to that. Skeptics who comment on alien adbuction can be ridiculously callous. But it’s also true that some fringe investigators (e.g. abduction researchers James Harder, Budd Hopkins, David Jacobs) intentionally stoke fear in their subjects — their empathy for abductees is entirely contrived.

  2. I often get that we go after the “easy prey”. It’s easy to make fun of alien abductees and Bigfoot hunters…and you know what… it is EASY, but it’s important NOT to. It’s hard for a skeptic to show empathy and understanding to these “easy targets”. We can learn a lot from attending paranormal conferences. Though, with the internet and self publishing, you don’t need to go to a conference to get a feel of how they think and feel.

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